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II’m
not very good with putting my memories
of Michael into words, but I’ll try to
give you a little glimpse of our young
years together.
Thought I would start with a funny story
about him and the boys. As the only girl
in our family I basically had to join in
or I spent my time alone.
One weekend the boys decided to make
bike jumps out of bricks and planks of
wood as they did quite often. I started
off just watching as per usual. Then
Michael suggested (very eagerly) to me
to have a go. I said yeah why not as I
had my own bike and was pretty much a
tomboy. I did say, make sure you don’t
make it too many bricks high. Well as I
came racing down our long driveway I had
the jump in my view realizing that the
boys had stacked the bricks about 8-10
high, it was too late to stop as I was
going too fast.
I then hit the jump flew over the
handlebars landing awkwardly, my head
just missing a brick, bike flipping
through the air landing with an almighty
crash! as I picked myself up from the
ground the boys were snickering
slightly, with Michael saying to me
,look jonnine, look what you did to your
bike ,you've broken the frame. I was
absolutely devastated, thinking mum and
dad are going to kill me because the
bike was fairly new. Michael then
reassured me that he could fix it for
me. I’ll just weld it back together he
said, all of about 13 years old.
So he did fix my bike, and repainted it
in a cacky green, so I was forever
grateful, as it was my transport around
the streets, needing it to follow the
boys around Osborne Park collecting
stickers, and other mischievous things.
At my wedding, the whole truth came out
in the speeches about how Michael had
been riding my bike, going over jumps
basically thrashing my bike until he
cracked the frame. That’s why he was so
eager for me to go over the jump, so he
could then blame me for it. We’ll
obviously I fell for it, and spent
18years or so believing I broke my bike,
and being grateful he fixed it! I
couldn’t believe they kept that from me
all those years!
We all spent our playtime quite
dangerously many times, including
Michael going through the backyard fence
with me on the back of his motorbike,
bike landing on me, exhaust burning my
leg. All in the fun at figs speedway as
we called our back yard.
Many stories like these have been tossed
around over the years, having many great
laughs. The bike incident will always
stick in my mind as I look back and
think their weren’t many times Michael
did anything too bad, as my kids say to
me now, uncle Michael never ever told us
off for anything, he didn’t raise his
voice ever! Such a beautiful person!
Life brings such uncertainty. Just
trying to have a few positive thoughts
everyday, being grateful to wake up each
morning is a struggle at times as
Michaels death has left such a huge void
in our hearts, and day to day lives.
The memories more vivid now than ever
before whether being sad, happy, or
exciting. I would personally like to
thank Darren Sutton for putting this
website together and everyone’s
beautiful words they have written, and
all the support everyone has given the
family.
Kindest regards jonnine
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